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Consent

NancyOgt

NancyOgt

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I recently saw a post about consent on social media, and it saddened me how some people were supporting the guy who the lady claimed to have raped her since she said no and kept going. Even worse the same happened to me and it wasn't just a "noo stopđź’…" kind of thing but I literally pushed the guy away but he forced himself into me and he had the guts za kunichekesha the following day. Anyway,, nimeshindwa vile I'll approach the matter with the guy maybe tell him what he did was wrong, but instead I lay awake every night thinking of how I got r$ped at the beginning of a new year. I hate that I don't have anyone that I could talk to about this and I just hope that guys can at least try and not force having sex with women when they say they don't want to. To all the good and kind guys may you have a lovely day. End of rant.
 
I just joined this forum and saw your post. I am sorry for what happened to you. The thing is ask any woman, everyone has such a story.

I made a realization too late in life that if you go to a man's house or invite him to yours, 98% of them expect sex. And nothing will stop him from getting it. So ladies, young and old unless you have intentions of having sex with a man, DO NOT invite him to your house or go to his. FRIEND OR NOT. Better be safe than sorry.
 
NancyOgt said:
I recently saw a post about consent on social media, and it saddened me how some people were supporting the guy who the lady claimed to have raped her since she said no and kept going. Even worse the same happened to me and it wasn't just a "noo stopđź’…" kind of thing but I literally pushed the guy away but he forced himself into me and he had the guts za kunichekesha the following day. Anyway,, nimeshindwa vile I'll approach the matter with the guy maybe tell him what he did was wrong, but instead I lay awake every night thinking of how I got r$ped at the beginning of a new year. I hate that I don't have anyone that I could talk to about this and I just hope that guys can at least try and not force having sex with women when they say they don't want to. To all the good and kind guys may you have a lovely day. End of rant.
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Sucks this happened to you. Keep heart. Not all men are bad, but yeah a lot of them need to grow up.
 
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